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we’re halfway thru april, u know what tht means?

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#ITS GONNA BE MAY

HOW DOES THIS MAKE ME LAUGH EVERY FUCKING YEAR!?

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Reblog if you don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend.

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I have a dog.

I have coffee.

I have tumblr 

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Reblog if you are in at least one of those fandoms…

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I’m in 23 of them…Should I be concerned?

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Favorite Castle Outfits

Bwahaha! I love how “shirtless” is a outfit too.

i want more of Castle in red shirts and dark blue shirts please.

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Castle inside jokes

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When [an abusive man] tells me that he became abusive because he lost control of himself, I ask him why he didn’t do something even worse. For example, I might say, “You called her a fucking whore, you grabbed the phone out of her hand and whipped it across the room, and then you gave her a shove and she fell down. There she was at your feet where it would have been easy to kick her in the head. Now, you have just finished telling me that you were ‘totally out of control’ at that time, but you didn’t kick her. What stopped you?” And the client can always give me a reason. Here are some common explanations:

"I wouldn’t want to cause her a serious injury."
“I realized one of the children was watching.”
“I was afraid someone would call the police.”
“I could kill her if I did that.”
“The fight was getting loud, and I was afraid the neighbors would hear.”

And the most frequent response of all:

"Jesus, I wouldn’t do that. I would never do something like that to her.”

The response that I almost never heard — I remember hearing it twice in the fifteen years — was: “I don’t know.”

These ready answers strip the cover off of my clients’ loss of control excuse. While a man is on an abusive rampage, verbally or physically, his mind maintains awareness of a number of questions: “Am I doing something that other people could find out about, so it could make me look bad? Am I doing anything that could get me in legal trouble? Could I get hurt myself? Am I doing anything that I myself consider too cruel, gross, or violent?”

A critical insight seeped into me from working with my first few dozen clients: An abuser almost never does anything that he himself considers morally unacceptable. He may hide what he does because he thinks other people would disagree with it, but he feels justified inside. I can’t remember a client ever having said to me: “There’s no way I can defend what I did. It was just totally wrong.” He invariably has a reason that he considers good enough. In short, an abuser’s core problem is that he has a distorted sense of right and wrong.

I sometimes ask my clients the following question: “How many of you have ever felt angry enough at youer mother to get the urge to call her a bitch?” Typically half or more of the group members raise their hands. Then I ask, “How many of you have ever acted on that urge?” All the hands fly down, and the men cast appalled gazes on me, as if I had just asked whether they sell drugs outside elementary schools. So then I ask, “Well, why haven’t you?” The same answer shoots out from the men each time I do this exercise: “But you can’t treat your mother like that, no matter how angry you are! You just don’t do that!”

The unspoken remainder of this statement, which we can fill in for my clients, is: “But you can treat your wife or girlfriend like that, as long as you have a good enough reason. That’s different.” In other words, the abuser’s problem lies above all in his belief that controlling or abusing his female partner is justifiable….

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Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (via seebster)

THIS BOOK SAVED MY LIFE AND I CANNOT RECOMMEND IT ENOUGH
EVERYONE ON EARTH SHOULD READ THIS *except abusers

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THE GOLDEN RULE OF TUMBLR

my god, we’re all Ross.

Excuse you.

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So in conclusion, we are all the men of Friends, combined. 

Not just the men.

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Phoebe is basically a walking night blogger when she’s got a guitar.  Admit it.

In conclusion, we are the show Friends. 

we all need this on our blogs

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This motivated me to study. Thanks tiny cactus.

THE TINY CACTUS IS BACK

prufrockslovesong:

naturallybohemian:

This motivated me to study. Thanks tiny cactus.

THE TINY CACTUS IS BACK

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Nathan Fillion is not appreciated enough.

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writingonthecastlewalls:

Live tweet of Nathan Fillion’s answers to questions at this weekend’s Salt Lake Comic Con event. Well stated. Can’t we all just have Neapolitan (Chocolate/Strawberry/Vanilla)?

Now how does he feel about the strawberry ice cream? Or does he just like chocolate?

As long as we’re getting it, and he’s kind to the people making it - why on earth do we care? Do we care when our plumber prefers  professional trout fishing as long as he fixes the sink properly?Lenord Nemoy was so resentful of being typecast as Spock, his first memoir was “I Am Not Spock” (years and a successful directing career later, he came to peace with it an wrote “I Am Spock”) similarly, Patrick Stewart was initially resentful of being cast on Star Trek the Next Generation because he was a classically trained Shakespearean actor. He wasn’t fond of the idea of being stuck in science-fiction for want of a job. Today he not only embraces Captain Picard, but Professor-X. None of which suffered before the actors change of heart.   When did we decide actors had to love their jobs for us to admire them or their work? Why do people care? He says he loves working with his crew mates (the speech at the hundred episode party that was never designed to be taped, and other public events like this one. The man is well known in the industry for being kind to his co-workers and generous and respectful to his fans. Why must we examine his emotions to see if he passes some weird false loyalty test?

writingonthecastlewalls:

4indicia:

writingonthecastlewalls:

Live tweet of Nathan Fillion’s answers to questions at this weekend’s Salt Lake Comic Con event. Well stated. Can’t we all just have Neapolitan (Chocolate/Strawberry/Vanilla)?

Now how does he feel about the strawberry ice cream? Or does he just like chocolate?

As long as we’re getting it, and he’s kind to the people making it - why on earth do we care? Do we care when our plumber prefers professional trout fishing as long as he fixes the sink properly?

Lenord Nemoy was so resentful of being typecast as Spock, his first memoir was “I Am Not Spock” (years and a successful directing career later, he came to peace with it an wrote “I Am Spock”) similarly, Patrick Stewart was initially resentful of being cast on Star Trek the Next Generation because he was a classically trained Shakespearean actor. He wasn’t fond of the idea of being stuck in science-fiction for want of a job. Today he not only embraces Captain Picard, but Professor-X. None of which suffered before the actors change of heart.

When did we decide actors had to love their jobs for us to admire them or their work? Why do people care? He says he loves working with his crew mates (the speech at the hundred episode party that was never designed to be taped, and other public events like this one. The man is well known in the industry for being kind to his co-workers and generous and respectful to his fans. Why must we examine his emotions to see if he passes some weird false loyalty test?

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